Resume to fly ... Women's Crisis
Here's my response to the email yesterday's Silvia ...
take this opportunity to say hello again ...
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Resume to fly, Silvia ...
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Cara Silvia,
first thing I'd like you to note that you are a lucky girl, I get an average of 20 to 25 emails every day.
If it is true that I say - just in time - to all the people who write to me, it is equally true that the probability of receiving an answer is now very low.
But I am your long email, point by point:
1. none of the five years that you did in high school, my girl, are thrown away, at the time, you will need later in life. Let's say that you will be very useful in this period;
2. the degree course you have chosen is without a doubt one of the most difficult, but I am sure that intelligent person which you are, you will know more engage and make the most of your potential ;
3. see that Agatha Christie was dyslexic and has become a great writer of detective stories, Richard Branson had many problems at school and became a great entrepreneur , Alber Einstein had a support teacher in mathematics and became what he became. The reason
why I say these things?
Simple: not count as you passed the exam in organic chemistry, but that you HAVE PASSED.
Remember each of them, their initial difficulties. And then remember what they are now ...
4. because never speaks of defeat? 've only got a different result, that you passed the exam but not easily and quickly but with a little to suffer.
What matters is the end result: you have passed.
5. I think you just need regain the confidence and esteem with the letter A capital, which had in you at the time of high school.
Back to love you, Silvia, come back to believe in yourself.
you came up here, you can go on until graduation.
I know in your heart you think you can do it, you just become aware.
Resume to fuel your self-esteem , return to love you, to stand on my girl a hug
Giancarlo Fornei
Motivational Trainer, Author & Coach Mental
"The Coach of the Women "
ps keep an eye on my blog, you can find them at this page you will find many interesting post who can help
http://www.giancarlofornei.com/new/content.asp?pagina=blog. htm & title = Blogs
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Monday, July 19, 2010
Ross Kemp Jamaica,song At End
Today I am publishing an email from Silvia, a young girl in "crisis feminine ...
The name is invented, so as to maintain complete privacy, but his story is true.
Damn if it is true ...
Read it carefully, it could be yours, how could it be that of any other Italian girl.
I am sure that not only find things in common, you may be able to help.
As might be able to help, also the response that I have already given in private to Silvia and after its approval, publish in full tomorrow.
A big hug, Silvia.
Giancarlo Fornei
Motivational Trainer, Author & Coach Mental
"The Coach of Women"
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The email Silvia
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Dear Mr. Fornei,
Hello my name is Silvia, I'm 23 and I come know he is a professional "coach of the women" by chance one night surfing the net.
I am writing because a few months of a moderate weight, with which, however, cohabit with difficulty, is stagnating in my life creandomi a strong sense of powerlessness, frustration and sadness. The
all started two years ago when I enrolled at university, after five years of grammar school, which were beautiful to some but "thrown" literally away for the lack of appropriate training bases in the course of chosen degree or medicinal chemistry.
The first tests are passed, some with good marks to others with poor performance when I have not had to bear, for obvious reasons, including the examination of organic chemistry and there were born the first problems while studying hard because I could not ever pass it.
Eventually I managed to pass only after a year of exhaustive and exhausting efforts is imperative to confirm that in this course each test is linked to another, and this examination is the necessary starting point for overcoming the most course exams and get a degree.
The point is that since I gave this test to the strong sense of defeat and discouragement are no longer able to give so many tests and though I like what I do because in practical tests I manage very well and also for the offer of work that the course would offer me good or bad.
I feel trapped in a limbo from which I struggle to come out even against my parents who support me as desperate and studies keep me as best they can.
The whole thing is topped off with a romantic relationship once the junction of two roads and the specification of two people who want to pursue a path of life together, complete with marriage, children and more ...
Bottom line: I am not even able to meet the emotional needs of the person I love and because we are walking together but we are also considering, I have a paralyzing fear of rejection if I can not put in "track" .
I do not expect me to solve the problem but a free constructive advice that I can be helpful to overcome this little moment of "women's crisis."
Thank you very much
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