Do you, like Mary? Do you always complaining? ...
Tell me, dear friend, what would you do if you had one day left to live?
If today were the last day of your life, you'd want to do what you're doing?
The other day I spoke with Mary (not her real name), a young lawyer of 39 years.
Mary is a beautiful woman with a good job a nice house, but like many women with whom I worked in the past, lacks a "healthy self-esteem."
Mary does not like it for what it is. You see fat (I can guarantee you that besides being beautiful is in perfect shape).
Mary does not love and can not appreciate what he (too often we see the beautiful things we have when we are lacking).
Above all, Mary always complain that life was stingy with her (who can not appreciate what they have, will hardly appreciate what you could receive).
She came to me to make a coaching session on communication technologies, we ended up talking about his low self-esteem and how he sees his future black.
After he "lamented" with me for over two hours, I made a trivial question: If you had one day to live, what would you do?
He looked at me, gave me half forced smile and said, through clenched teeth: "I would definitely other, everything that I could not do until now."
Excellent response, I said - adding - and tell me, what are you waiting for?
instead of continuing to complain, what do you think you begin to act and change all those things in your life you do not like?
Mary remained in my study in silence for more than three minutes.
He raised his head, he smiled with his eyes, thanked and paid for the session.
When I took her to the car, she threw her arms around me and said:
"Only now I understand what I was selfish and ungrateful. Life has given me many beautiful things and they still do not I, I promise you that tomorrow, Look for them to begin making full use the capacity that I have. Thank you for opening my eyes. "
then gave me a kiss on his right cheek and went away on his beautiful car.
And you, friend of the blog ... If I had only one day to live, what would you do?
continued to complain or you do those things that you never had the courage to do?
Look back and tell me, with great honesty you have lived a great life and you still have to "start " to live?
I want to remember that life is one (only when you realize that you're going to lose it) and should be lived intensely, moment by moment, moment by moment.
If you do not like, stop complaining about how Mary and immediately begins to do what you really like, you've never had the courage to do.
We always have a justification as to why we do not have did what we always dreamed of doing.
Trust me: stop looking and give more excuses and start to act immediately to change what you do not like.
In Think Positive , my first book / ebook, I devoted an entire chapter to ' ACTION , maybe it's that you begin to read it.
A hug and leave a comment to this post.
Giancarlo Fornei
Motivational Trainer, Author & Coach Mental
"The Coach of Women"
Author Think Positive - Women In Crisis - What do women want?
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